Love Yourself First

Love yourself first.

Every human since the age of time has felt the calling of love, and this calling comes from deep within the human psyche. Without really understanding where this calling comes from, we will search for love outside of ourselves looking to others to love us. The true form of love comes from within, by connecting with your Authentic Self, to love yourself is the first step to attracting real love from others. This has been taught throughout history, yet we still go looking outside of ourselves to fill this deep gap within ourselves.

When you tap into this internal love your whole environment changes, your circumstances change, and you will notice that people around you start acting differently toward you. When self-love springs forth, you will stop looking for it externally and the need to search for it will vanish because self-love always outshines any other form of love.

This love is your true nature and is the magic behind all existence. Nature shows love in its purest form, the give and take lives harmoniously side by side. Pure Love is the flow of energy that is behind all things. The leaders of this world would do well to learn how to connect to this source of love, and I reckon by doing so there would be more peace across the globe, but to date this source of love seems to be only found by those who have chosen to walk the path of self-realisation. This does not mean that you have to be like the spiritual greats of the world in order to connect to this pure form of love, everyone has the ability to do so if they so desire to pursue their Authentic Self.

When you feel this pure form of love for the first time it can feel quite overwhelming, probably because we have been searching for it for all of our lives. When I felt this for the first time the feeling was so intense that I had tears of joy, deep sense of relief and very light-hearted. It was an amazing experience. Regular daily practices of meditation or contemplation are the keys to connecting to this love daily, and by doing so it will leave you with heart felt gratitude toward others and all living things. Life will never look the same again, it’s like you have been given a fresh start.

Now some of you may read this and think it is all very woo woo, and are probably saying to yourself ‘yeah right, whatever you reckon. If it is that easy why aren’t more people doing this?’ The reason why more people are not is because people have a tendency to believe that things have to be hard and don’t even think about the possibility of it being simple which is to look within.

Nature doesn’t struggle to get things done it just does it, and it is the same for humans, we do not have to struggle to feel pure love. The best advice I can give you is to just start, go within and allow the process of connecting with your Authentic Self begin. The first step in the process is to allow, and to release any resistance you may be feeling toward the process. Take baby steps, and overtime it will just start to flow naturally.

Seriously, if there was a simple way for you to achieve happiness would you not want to pursue it? And if the way is far simpler than you anticipated, is that not a good thing?

My husband is constantly telling me that this energy is everywhere, and it does not take any special gifts or rituals to tap into this source. Well…how on point is he… As I mentioned earlier the only requirement is to let go and allow. How much more easier do you want it to be?

Love is a necessity of life, it is our life force. The more you feel the love for yourself the more you can give. There is nothing stopping you, besides yourself, so start today and awaken to the true gift that you have within, step into your space and you will start to fall in love with life with new eyes and a new perspective.

Your calling is waiting for you, all you have to do is reach in and receive it.